He wanted to move to the other side of the world again. Some of you may remember he moved away a year after he and I split up and was gone for ten months, leaving me as a single parent to an angry little boy. It was during that time I met Tony. Continue reading →
As I mentioned a few days ago, a very nice man reached out to me right away – within a minute – of my unhiding my OK Cupid profile. He was a 97% match and quickly proved to be mature, polite, nicely flirty, interesting, and interested.
He is 55, a self-employed Chartered Accountant, and looks nothing like any of the men I’ve dated so far, with a full head of reddish blonde hair. Glasses. Slender.
He has been divorced for almost 10 years, and shares equal custody of his two teenaged sons.
He met all of my rules; we moved to text and then he quickly afterwards asked to meet me for a drink. I chose my favourite restaurant near my office. The last time I was there it was with Tony.
For the prior year, Sunday has been the day that my son switches houses.
Last night, whilst going over our plans for today (Sunday) with my son, he said
“and after that, I go to Daddy’s, right?”
and I had to explain that Daddy is away and he will only be coming home every few weekends.
I could feel the sadness radiating off him, yet, just like his father, he didn’t want to talk about it. I didn’t press it.
So…it’s a beautiful day here today, and I’m taking my son to a place filled with trees and parkland, surrounded by water, with an amazing amusement park for children. We will ride the rides and play games and lay on the grass. We will be joined by a close friend and her two girls later in the day.
And I’m hoping that my son forgets his sadness, if just for a few hours.