My name is Ann St. Vincent. I am an executive businesswoman living in a city in my early 40s. I am also a Mom; my son Liam lives with me half the time.
This blog is my journal.
The last few years of turbulence in my life – involving a sexless-then-open marriage and taking advantage of it, divorce, sexual reawakening, online dating – all while navigating equal custody of my son and trying to maintain a good relationship with my ex – inspired me to get back to writing.
Unlike many divorced women, I am not bitter or angry at my ex for the breakdown of our marriage. We both agreed we should go our separate ways. I don’t regret my choices. I’m pretty happy. I’m not using a dating coach (yet). I’m not looking to replace my husband and get re-married. What I am, after a 15-year almost totally sexless relationship, is very keen on coming back to life, fulfilling every physical and emotional desire I have. At this point, I’d also like a boyfriend.
So far, so good. Life is fun and quite messy and I’m just figuring it out as I go along.
Everything here is true and my first hand, un-embellished experience, but the names of those I mention are disguised to protect the guilty. Enjoy.
If you are new to my blog, over 800 posts may be a bit overwhelming. Here’s how to get started:
My back story is best summed up in this post which I wrote on my blog birthday in 2014. I have also written a post called Who is Ann St. Vincent anyway, that describes who I am and what I share on this blog. I also have a page that lists posts written by bloggers who have met me (and not all of them were trying to get in my pants).
While I write a lot about men and relationships, both past and present, there is lots of other stuff here as well. Here are various ways to find what you are looking for:
By Category (You can also use the drop down box to find these):
Blogging & Opinions: Musings & opinion pieces, search term summaries, awards, and summary posts.
Dating: The stuff between my one-night-stands and my relationships.
Dating Fails: Online dating comedy, awful dates, and generally bad experiences.
Family & Friends: Post-split adventures, my son, stories about friends.
Marriage & Divorce: My ex-husband, my marriage, and my divorce.
Quick & Dirty Encounters: Short-term sexual or dating experiences.
Relationships: Posts about longer-term dating I’ve done, or boyfriends I’ve had.
Sex: Stuff about sex or my sexual encounters.
You can use the search area to find anything, really. I have tags for recurring figures, which you can find on my “Lovers” page. You can also peruse the list of every man I’ve had sex with, which includes links to their stories.
If you know what/who you are looking for, just put http://annstvincent.com/tag/WHATYOURELOOKINGFOR/?order=asc in your browser and it will give you the oldest to newest post with that tag. For example, http://annstvincent.com/tag/Lewis/?order=asc will give you stories about Lewis, a recurring fuck buddy.
These pages may eventually be retired as my categories and tags take over. But they also list many posts I wrote on these subjects: