#14 Puts a smile on my face.

I mentioned the symphony date on my last post. #14 and I haven’t been texting since we made our date, but this morning I woke up to this:

Good morning sexy. Not sure how much a man is supposed to confess in states of arousal. But at the risk of being inappropriate…

I know you mentioned some relationship pains. Hope you’re coping well as can be hoped. 

That said, I must share that I have been finding myself if various states of arousal thinking of you. Happy to be your distraction if you so choose. I suggest you wear some sexy heels and underwear for our eve. I have been battling many sensual images sitting next to you at the symphony. Waking up early and aroused and enjoying the temptation of pleasing myself without release. Letting the sexual tension build with daily images of my mouth, lips and tongue on your wet lips. 

Happy Thursday. 

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Wow. I think (and told him) that it probably the best good morning text message I’ve ever received.

My brain is circling around thoughts of sexual power, vulnerability, objectification, and promiscuity. I’m not sure where it’s going to land, but the past week has got me thinking.

59 thoughts on “#14 Puts a smile on my face.

  1. I like this guy already. He’s ready and willing to be the rebound if necessary which shows he is pragmatic and emotionally mature (I hope), but at the same time he’s lighting a fire for some sexual tension and hopefully chemistry. Awesome!

  2. Well, I can certainly think of worse ways to spend a post break up period. Good for you Ann. It seems to me you are coping really well and having some fun. Happy Thursday indeed.

    • Thanks John! I wasn’t overwhelmed with sadness in the last 12 hours so that’s a very good thing. I think I spent two weeks thinking about it ending (actually, maybe a whole year), so my grieving started early, perhaps.

  3. So nice of a text to wake up to!!! You deserve to be happy Ann! We are here to remind you of this. May your symphony date be fabulous! And you know we will be wanting the details. 😉

  4. You may have just met your match (at least in the texting department)!!! Wow–lots has happened since I last dropped by. So Tony is gone…geez. I need to catch up. How are you doing?!?!

  5. Well, this sounds nice! I don’t know how you’ll feel on the night, but am sure that you’ll do what feels right for you 🙂
    Hugs for all those moments when you are sad, unsure and so on.
    This too shall pass… 🙂
    XOXO

  6. If you can’t be with the one you love, having someone send you eloquent sexts isn’t too awful of a fate. I’m not one who has any good advice on how to manage your head, or whether its better to think or be distracted. That said, I’ve come to think lately that rather than trying to manage thoughts and emotions and situations, maybe it’s best to let some things happen, and see where they go. As always, good luck!

    • It was very sweet of him to send. There’s been a few more in the same vein.

      and yeah, I’m not sure what’s right either. I do know there were a few things that just seemed to much for me – like the sex club last weekend. But if I feel up to something, I will do it. I am listening to my gut about what I can handle and what I can’t.

  7. Normally I’d say talk is cheap, but this guy obviously has the right words at the right time. …and you already know he can deliver.

    As for your last statement, are you feeling conflicted? I never felt sexually powerful outside of a committed relationship ( could never get past the objectification, I could never seem to not feel like I was being used). That’s not to say I don’t believe it’s possible, because I see you as very sexually powerful. ..which I admire. My question was, are you feeling less so at the moment?

    • I feel pretty sexually powerful, actually. It’s been interesting to have multiple men trying to pursue sex with me right now… and in most cases I think it’s about me, as well as just the sex. I’m writing a post about it right now!

      And thank you 🙂

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