Three old flames have been put in my path.

I’m not particularly fatalistic. I don’t believe the things that happen to me are all guided by some supreme being.

But there are times where I do wonder what the universe is trying to tell me.

This is one of those times.

The day I left for my recent vacation, when Fox and I were already talking about “his emotional needs”, I got an out-of-the-blue text message from Tony. He and I hadn’t communicated since two days after I told him I couldn’t be in contact anymore. Almost two months.

No, I haven’t written about that yet but I do have things to say on that front. Appreciate your patience πŸ™‚

Then, Tuesday of this week, I got a text message from one of my colleagues (he works in a totally different division, in a different city), asking how I was doing. He’s been featured in two stories on my blog (the interesting one isΒ here). I haven’t heard from him in many months. He didn’t ask me out but still.

Okay, so I was already making jokes about what the heck it meant.

But the, yesterday, I heard from….


My last post about him was in September, when he reached out to me after many months.

This time, within four texts he said he missed me. He wants to see me.

It just makes me laugh.

And ponder.

31 thoughts on “Three old flames have been put in my path.

  1. Sometimes I feel like the fall makes people nostalgic? I have also been plagued with old exes and flames this month. Same magic number 3 too!

    Although yours do seem amicable πŸ™‚

    Maybe something in the air?


    • Thanks Fatal!! Your word “plagued” made me laugh… these are all pretty positive. Only Shenanigans makes me roll my eyes, but this time he’s being *slightly* more mature.

      sometime in the air indeed.

      What are you doing about your plague??

      • Well. Haha. I took a 3000 mile car ride with one and spent 4 days in Las Vegas with him. Which may or may not have been…advisable.

        The other two have reached out via text. One after 6 months and one after nearly 5 years. The former I’ve been sort of responding to, he’s not… so bad. I suppose. The latter I’ve been ignoring almost entirely. His previous number(s) were blocked for a reason.

        It’s been an interesting October, that’s for sure.


  2. Please Ann, not Shenanigans. Anyone but that PUA douchetard. If you’re in need of a good fucking call Jason, or the Dom, or pretty much anyone else. But for God’s sake don’t encourage that idiot any further.

  3. Hahaha! But yes, I think it’s a sign. I believe in signs.
    You are ready for something else. Or to test what you feel for Fox (and others)…
    One way or another… enjoy tomorrow πŸ™‚

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