I saw the Cook online earlier this week and confess to saying to myself “oh you’re single again are you? That’s karma you fucking jerk.”
I’m usually more gracious, but given the history, not so much. I wasn’t following my dating rules then. I suppose I should have known better. It was too bad – he’s one of the ones where I think if I’d approached dating him a little differently, perhaps there would have been a different outcome.
But of course, another man from my past showed up, this time on OK Cupid. I never wrote about him but he is #41 on my Men I’ve Slept With list.
I guess I don’t harbour as much resentment toward him as I’m pretty sure he was mortified he couldn’t keep it up and that’s why he never contacted me again.
Here was our exchange:
I share this not because I had some great zinger to share, but I found it hilarious that he reached out again. Do guys really not remember that they were douchebags? I knew who he was just by his screen name (and then the date description).
Anyway, that was the end of the conversation. Funnily enough…I still have another “what’s old is new” story to share….but the pace is slowing!