Given my near miss last week of almost spilling the beans about this blog, I’ve been thinking a lot about the topic.
I’m not on the verge of telling Tony, but I do want to form an opinion and be ready for it. It has been 17 years since I was in a situation where I talked with my sexual history with someone I was in a relationship with.
How much to do you tell a boyfriend about a relatively promiscuous past? Are you in the “tell-all” camp, or do you leave out things that you feel might be overwhelming or disconcerting? What, if anything, do you keep a secret?
When you have written about many of your sexual escapades in a blog, when and how do you tell someone about that?
I’m curious what you all think – what you think is right for me, what you’ve done when faced with similar situations, and the pros and cons of various options.