Here I am, thinking my last summary post was about two weeks ago. Nope, turns out it was last month. But I guess a lot has been going on which also makes me think slowing down with men is not a bad thing. Here is a not-so-wee update, with links.
My last summary post I was in the midst of things with Andrew. Those of you who have been reading for a while know that it’s over now. You can catch up on how it ended on my Lovers page. Andrew how has his own section.
I have been 90% good about not contacting him. I did send him a text to tell him I found his collar stays and didn’t feel right about throwing them out so would leave them in an envelope in my mailbox for him to pick them up. He said thanks and that was it. He still hasn’t picked it up.
I confess to looking at a couple of the cock shots he sent me (after my asking why he never sent me pics, and he said he thought I didn’t like them, and I told him uh, no, I love pics) and I do so miss that cock. BUT I’ve done nothing about it.
The Dog Trainer. Oh, he was fun. He’s not around anymore – my choice yay – but got me thinking more about spankings. So all is not lost. And like Andrew’s cock, I found myself musing about the Dog Trainers hands today. But again, that’s as far as it went. I have even resisted my natural caregiving urge to text him and see if he’s feeling better.
- You will totally believe the trouble I got up to on a day stuck in bed.
- More dirty from the dog trainer
- The dog trainer f*cks like the dirty dog he is
- My first ever pic…password protected to protect those who don’t care to see my ass | Spanking aftermath picture
- When dogs can’t be trained (The conclusion of my dog trainer miniseries)
FetLife. Yeah, yeah, not a dating site…but I still get hit on a lot there. There were some comical first interactions which of course I documented for amusement. There are three men I have been messaging off and on since I joined. One is a 28 year-old and yeah, if I decide to meet him it would be with a subsequent hookup in mind. One is my age and seemingly many of the things I would like in a partner, although he’s only looking for an ongoing sexual relationship. I may meet him for a drink to satisfy my curiosity. The third is not a hookup potential but he’s a Dom and I would like to pick his brain about some things.
- My first FetLife Flouder (yes, this will be a series) | The Cynic Hater
- FetLife Flounder No. 2 | Oops, I’m Married
- FetLife Flounder No. 3 | Looking for a real b*tch
And of course, given this is me we are talking about, there are also:
Random musings from my world:
I had dinner with a good friend whilst on vacation, and realized how I would like to be treated on a date | Dinner with a real gentleman
I saw a guy again I’d seen twice before. The sex wasn’t great (and yes I’ve given him another chance and that will be an upcoming post) | A sexual lunchbox letdown & realising the word is small
A really shitty thing happened and it made me write this | Newsflash: I am not infallible
I thought I might have sex with the really hot colleague but it didn’t happen. Still could, I suppose | Oops I did it again….not.
But I was honored with an award (and got it again but haven’t put up another post yet!) | I’m a bad bad girl blogger.
I tend to see patterns in things. And comments from my amazing readers also really get me thinking. So I may be entering a thoughtful phase (who, me?) | A round up of the horses in the stable | What the heck do I want, anyway?
For the record, I have not texted The Lawyer since our exchange. Nor have I said anything to Hot Actor after my last “Good Morning” response to him. And the Comedian and I have also had full silence. So I’ve been sticking to the plan so far.
Some of you were surprised I responded to P / Shenanigans when for the first time ever he said he needed to talk to me. I thought perhaps he had an STI but nope, it was something else entirely | Sweet bloody hell. I’m your dating counselor now?
And of course I will close with a repeat plea for help… | Please help make me famous. (the links are also at the top right of my page…so you can just go there too).
Oh, and I reached over 100,000 views this weekend. I’m not even sure what to say about that other than, wow…didn’t see that coming.