Read this post if you don’t know to whom I’m referring.
He sent me a pic but his mouth was cut off. I responded back with “But you left out those soft lips of which you speak?”
He sent me another pic. A dressed mirror selfie from his knees up. He’s attractive in a swarthy Eastern European kinda way. I know he’s just my height.
Anyway…I wrote my post, got your great comments, and didn’t respond back to him.
This morning I got the following email:
“I perfectly understand how attraction works and am not offended with you switching into silence mode but expected at least a farewell sentence.
It was actually the most normal thing he had written so far.
I emailed back “Oh it’s not that…you are attractive and yes I should have responded. I found your barrage on OkC rather off-putting so was debating what to tell you.”
He said “Barrage?”
I said “Yes. You guessing all kinds of things without me – sounded fairly generic. You presuming what I wanted – without asking. And your assertion that I was chasing you and would be lucky to catch you. While the latter may be true, it goes both ways.”
And he said “It was my way of trying to get you interested…. I guess you are used to one liner guys who will say something like: ‘hey baby…you are so pretty…can we meet?’ not me….fortunately or unfortunately :)”
I haven’t responded back. Not sure if I will.