I was lying in my bed, naked but for a long sweater. It was a cardigan with only one button, so he had full access to any parts at any time. It was my compromise to the fact that he would prefer I be naked at all times.
Andrew and I had woken up, had some nice morning sex, made coffee, and were back in my room waiting for the breakfast I made (baked oatmeal with chopped walnuts) to be finished.
He was getting ready to go. He came over to the bed, leaned over, and smacked my bare ass, hard. I may have moaned a little. He did it again, and then again.
He stood up, contemplated me for a second, and said “you know, I think you might enjoy a dungeon”.
Hmmpf, I thought. I said “I’m sorry, but I’m not sure what you mean.”
He said basically that while I am not a sub, he thinks I am what he called “alpha submissive”; that after I get my needs met, I can be pretty submissive. I don’t care if that’s not some official term, but I knew what he meant. He said he thinks I would be capable of getting into sub space and might enjoy a good beating.
I wasn’t quite sure what to say to all that, so I asked a lot of questions.
Now, he is not a Dom, although he is naturally dominant (which I quite enjoy). So he said he wasn’t skilled enough to do that to me. To which I responded I couldn’t do something like that with someone I didn’t know and trust.
He said – well, someone you trust would be there. Meaning him, of course.
Then the oatmeal was ready and it was back to talking about our sons or scrabble or work.
I feel like I know very little about sex when I talk to him. He’s not all talk. It’s not bravado. He just knows – and has done – a lot. For crying out loud, he met his ex-wife on a fetish site!
So, basically, my “to do” list is growing with him:
Threesome with two bi guys where they engage each other as well. Check (albeit delayed).
Gangbang in a couple of weeks. Check.
Explore my submissive side through erotic beatings. Check.
Next thing I know I will be getting it on with a woman. Although he prefers threesomes with two men. So I’m totally down with that.
What the heck would come after that?
I feel a bit like Alice in Wonderland.