The spammers really love me! (And some others as well)

You know, the next time I’m feeling down I should just check out all the bloggy love that sits in my spam box. People I don’t even know complimenting me and my blog, or asking for my help. Here are a sample:

The compliments:

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These know how to make me feel helpful:

“Hmm is anyone else having problems with the images on this blog loading? I’m trying to find out if its a problem on my end or if it’s the blog. Any feed-back would be greatly appreciated.” ~~ Felon Clothing

“I know this if off topic but I’m looking into starting my own blog and was wondering what all is needed to get setup?
I’m assuming having a blog like yours would cost a pretty penny?
I’m not very internet savvy so I’m not 100% certain. Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated. Appreciate it.”

All kidding aside, I was touched by the outpouring of support I received after my The end of Johnny & Ann?! post. THANK YOU. To all of you who wrote comments of encouragement. To those of you who reached out to chat, who followed up the next day and the day after that, and even today, just to see if I was okay. To those who took the time to use my “contact me” page to send me emails with kind words.

All of you. Thank you.

It’s been a really hard few days. I’ve been in a fog, crying or just staring off into space. I had stuff to do at work that has been ignored. My son has been a good distraction but I have this weight of sadness that just won’t lift. My son is off with his Dad now (his first weekend back from his job), and I can’t tell you what I’ve done with the last three hours.

Johnny and I did talk on the phone last night. It was a sober conversation. I’m not recounting it here…but we are talking about what is next. How to move forward. How this has changed things, and what to do about it.

One comment on his blog last night used the hashtag #TeamAJ. It brought some levity to our conversation and for that we were both grateful.

Thank you.

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0 thoughts on “The spammers really love me! (And some others as well)

  1. I’m glad to hear that you guys are still talking. What I said on his blog goes for you too. You both just need to find the right balance that keeps you both happy and that’s not really something that’s going to be achieved easily, especially when you factor in distance.

    No easy answers but lots of virtual hugs and warmth coming your way.

  2. I think people tend to get what they give and although I’m a new follower It would seem to me that you give a lot of support to others and I can see in that why you would get so much back.

    Continued love and support for you both. xo

  3. Sorting this kind of thing out is hard enough when you’ve been together a long while. I am glad to hear you’re talking. There’s just so little that can be said. But you’re two smart, realistic people and I am confident if anyone can sort through this, you guys will.

What do you think?