While my blog is definitely not focussed on medical anecdotes, getting my Fallopian tubes removed is certainly something that feels like a big deal to me. If you missed (and care about) the back story, you can find it here:
Birth Control from Hell
- Becoming Sterile on Purpose
- A sure-fire way to know who your real friends are
So my surgery was on Tuesday this week. I got home around 5pm my time, with my Mom, who stayed with me overnight (Doctor’s orders).
I had sent a few text messages after I was out of the worst of the recovery, to some real life and blogging friends, to let them know I was okay. But I hadn’t really been online at all.
Once I got settled in my bed, I opened my phone and saw I had a message on Whatsapp. I talk to a couple of friends there but not many. I was a little surprised to see it was from the chef (aka #47), the 29 year-old who I saw once and ever since then, sends me naughty text messages with cock shots every few months. I haven’t heard from him in a few months.
Here’s what he served up to me:
I laughed out loud. It hurt.
I tested a theory…and sent him back a text.
Guess what? I heard NOTHING. Check out the time stamp above, it was over six hours later.
Don’t get me wrong – I wasn’t under any illusions that he really wanted me to be his girlfriend. I knew he just wanted me for sex whenever he ran through whatever other women were in his life.
But still. Even with an occasional fuck buddy, you would think there would be some remote semblance of caring.
And the dumbest thing, which Johnny pointed out to me when I told him about this?
The chef and I had been fuck buddies, even if not recently, and he might have had a shot sometime again in the future. But this guy is so stupid that he doesn’t even pretend to care about my well-being. Any chance he might have had is burned now… because there is NO WAY IN HELL I will ever let him near me after this.
Even in my worst, most desperate moment. It’s not going to happen.
So folks…if you want to test if a lover / potential lover / fuck buddy has any care for you at all? Just send them a text saying you had surgery.