It’s moments like this one, back in November, that I think perhaps I have overextended myself with men. 4 guys, three of whom were lovers, all texting me in the span of 2 minutes. I now understand why some people limit themselves to talking to 2 or 3 people at one time. Otherwise, you end up asking the wrong Italian dude when he is leaving for Rome. I did that. The Cook was going to Rome and I asked another Italian dude who I was also seeing when he was leaving. When he looked at me like I was insane, I pretended I was drunk.